I casually mentioned a friend being harrassed by someone she used to look upon as her own brother! Shes been stressed up for a few years, feeling stuck as to should she attend a particular family gathering? And the ok-a-while, then back to be a pervert again.
So his excuse is his wife doesnt want to have sex anymore.
But he has an erectile issue!
Seriously! How long can performing oral lasts?
ED needs to be treated. Here where I am, where it is still taboo to discuss it openly, more than 2 people would suffer! Most men wouldnt think twice to just go hunt for an attractive, 'trusted' victim to pour his heart to. Usually, a relative. Thats where the 3rd person comes in! And usually doesnt even realize that shes being abused.
Well, these days, women here do it too, but it is more of a...'consenting adults' thingy.
Im sorry guys, its always a harassment when its the guy!
Anyway, how did it start? That the husband going to another woman, and started a secret rendezvous? According to him just because his wife wouldnt have sex with anymore (but why wont a wife make love to her husband anymore? There must be a very valid reason, haha, as valid as his reason to have sex with another woman! Think about it...) And proudly confessing that he still loves his wife a lot..like THAT makes up for the indecent, inappropriate proposal?
LOL, sorry, how bias!
Well..
He realizes his ED issue. Surely he needs to understand that his wife could get jaw-lock for taking so longggg, and still not getting anywhere!
I think I can understand the frustration in both!
Ladies and gentlemen, you need to address this issue, seriously. A reader wrote telling about how she had not had sex with her diabetic husband for 5 years now, but, ok heres the weird bit..
He takes in a 2nd wife!! Isnt that interesting?
How did he do that?
Apparently, the 2nd wife 'survives' on her toy.
But why take in another wife, when you are well aware of your condition???
While toys help, what about the 1st wife who prefers the real thangggg?
Seek help.
Or let her go! The lack of bravery clearly isnt an act of love nor compassion.
Or is it?
Hmmmph..
This isnt the issue of the western couples, not as many as down here in Asia at least. I feel that people in the western world are more open at handling this issue than us Asian.
So his excuse is his wife doesnt want to have sex anymore.
But he has an erectile issue!
Seriously! How long can performing oral lasts?
ED needs to be treated. Here where I am, where it is still taboo to discuss it openly, more than 2 people would suffer! Most men wouldnt think twice to just go hunt for an attractive, 'trusted' victim to pour his heart to. Usually, a relative. Thats where the 3rd person comes in! And usually doesnt even realize that shes being abused.
Well, these days, women here do it too, but it is more of a...'consenting adults' thingy.
Im sorry guys, its always a harassment when its the guy!
Anyway, how did it start? That the husband going to another woman, and started a secret rendezvous? According to him just because his wife wouldnt have sex with anymore (but why wont a wife make love to her husband anymore? There must be a very valid reason, haha, as valid as his reason to have sex with another woman! Think about it...) And proudly confessing that he still loves his wife a lot..like THAT makes up for the indecent, inappropriate proposal?
LOL, sorry, how bias!
Well..
He realizes his ED issue. Surely he needs to understand that his wife could get jaw-lock for taking so longggg, and still not getting anywhere!
I think I can understand the frustration in both!
Ladies and gentlemen, you need to address this issue, seriously. A reader wrote telling about how she had not had sex with her diabetic husband for 5 years now, but, ok heres the weird bit..
He takes in a 2nd wife!! Isnt that interesting?
How did he do that?
Apparently, the 2nd wife 'survives' on her toy.
But why take in another wife, when you are well aware of your condition???
While toys help, what about the 1st wife who prefers the real thangggg?
Seek help.
Or let her go! The lack of bravery clearly isnt an act of love nor compassion.
Or is it?
Hmmmph..
This isnt the issue of the western couples, not as many as down here in Asia at least. I feel that people in the western world are more open at handling this issue than us Asian.
