Wait a tick..did they say men are from Mars..?

I'll have to say otherwise, really! 

As I grow older (and hopefully a little wiser, everyday) I realized that women can be really weird. Just yesterday, an old friend from  my childhood days came for my son's birthday. After the presents were opened and the kids went out to play, all the moms gathered around the table and we started catching up on each other. So inevitably the topic about who's with who now surfaced. So R started. With a certain disagreement in her voice.
"Emhh, he's going out with J. You ingat tak J," describing J to all of us. "Can you believe that?" And she went on and on... It's not about what or how she said or described the whole thing, really. Sometimes we do that too. The thing that I find a little hard to digest is..ok, how about you guys decide...
'HE' used to have a real big time crush on R. But she was at the time going out with this other guy. If I remember correctly, knowing that R is with someone else, 'He' moved on and dated J from years back. And to find out that 'He' is again dating J, some of us thought, may be they are meant for each other. But what bugs me is that R sure is not happy about it! But why? She didn't want him when he wanted her, why is the jealousy lingering in the air?
Then there's this other thing that we girls do, whether intentionally or not, I think this child-like attitude should really be diminished from our characteristic values. Somewhat. LOL, I'm just talking about how us girls fancy doing the "ummm, nothing.." thingy. A girl gets a little upset over something. After a few hours, the guy FINALLY noticed, and asked, "Babyboo, whatsa matter? You're not yourself.......," Instead of being bold and sarcastic (a little, well that's for taking hours to realize!) why couldn't we just respond, "I'm so glad that you finally noticed that I have not been myself. Yes, Papi, I was a wee upset that you didn't say anything about my new hairstyle and the new colour, blah blah blah..." There! You know how boys can suddenly be (and they talk about multitasking!) slow and inattentive? Why do we do that? No, it's not cute anymore. It's suffocating. Forget it, they can be really smart but they are no mind-readers! And when they try to become one, its a disaster! SO why not save your selves all the trouble girls? Are you familiar with this phrase 'My head says no, but my heart says go'? Well, erase that from your vocabulary of phrases! NOW! Speak both your head and heart, then you won't be blaming each other...
OK, this is a little tough to put in writing. But I will try my level best to be subtle. Here you go. Most married men, lie about their wives! And why do girls always fall for these..His wife beat him up. His wife has an affair with another woman. His wife doesn't cook for the family. His wife keeps all his salary.
Girls, be sensible! I mean the higher being is showing you some kind  of signs there...
Oh, and I have one more thing to add, if you're involved with a married man, and if he is sincere enough to marry you, tell him one of your (many) conditions is be GOOD to the first wife and the children meaning money is on time, be fair to both wives la di da. It's really HIGH time we  be nice to our sisters instead!

In support of 'Better Relationship' (HA!)

http://www.funny.com/cgi-bin/WebObjects/Funny.woa/wa/funny?fn=C4NOQ&Funny_Jokes=Men_are_from_Mars_and_Women_are_from_Venus

LaLa LaLa..

Hello fellas.. I found this in my Facebook posted my friend Aziah Madi whose husband is a Chef. Ooooooh the photo Aziah posted is enough to drool me that I asked her for the recipe, and she is very kind to let us all share it. So for you in Europe and US, the next time you found mussels, you should really try this!

1/2kg mussels
ginger, sliced - young ginger preferably
5 cloves of garlic, sliced
1 onion, sliced
oyster sauce, about 5 tablespoon
sweet soy sauce
corn flour, 1 tablespoon
salt and sugar to taste

Saute garlic, onion and ginger. Add Oyster sauce, then add sweet soy sauce and a cup of water and bring to boil. Add mussles, salt and sugar ONLY for 3 mins and turn fire off. Garnish with coriander leaves (my personal favourite) or.... Spring Onions.

Thank you again Aziah  :-) and you guys, give it a try

WHATTT

I've always believed that technology is here to improve things - whatever that means! But hey, my profile photo's disappeared and apparently it's due to having two blogs under the same primary account. How crazy can that get? IF it is not permitted to have more than one blog under the same Author/Primary Account, why the heck did you ask if I wanted to create a new blog, like "Hey, just click the button and voila!"

Yeah I'm ranting. I don't want to be creating a test blog and the html jiggalooz!

I guess it's not thaaaat simple here @ Bloggerville 

ohhh norrie!

would it be fair, no.. ok not quite the word..let me rephrase that, would it be alright to just publish about friends who wrote in about lifes little mystery?
i got quite a lot and its kind of hard really to pick which to publish. and telling about others instead.
im just rambling as i always do, so forgive me if im not making sense here, or that i jump the topic every now and then.

has life ever get kinda boring for you? im just checking..cuz it gets that way with me sometimes. sometimes i thought to myself, why norrie aint all these enough for you? the suffering that is..lol. i went out last night for a casual dinner with a professional-acquaintance cum friend lol, and he said, you laughed all the time i find it hard to believe you went through all that, blah blah blah. and he went on telling me how strong i have been. i found that to be uncomfortably untrue considering the breakdowns and the many times i felt like giving up..ohh i dont know what im talking about..its been raining you know and ive been known to behave this way when it rains..

and sometimes friendship confuses me..

have a great weekend :)