When youre single and you cant sleep, just get up and DO something! Dont sweat yourself to sleep. Do something that would bring you back to slumberland. Most of the time, id play scrabble. But tonight I prefer this.
(That may very well be no. 1)
1. Even if he or she is your closest friend, since birth - when she starts acting weird, bringing you down, you talk about it, still no change after a year, slowly distant yourself would be best - if I wanted to tell K about it, I would have done it myself. YOU dont have to go through all the trouble making lunch!
2. Dont always expect people to buy your stuff, lol, from my own online shopping experience - a relative! Thats real uglyyyy!!! Support others too, its not like youre obligated to buy from everyone, everyday. Esp dgn orang susah cam I kann, belilh satu barang untuk beri sokongan. Asik nak org beli brg kau jerr..
My friend used to help a mutual friend with her biz, helped her promote and buy her hijabs, her ready2cook product, kain, kolagen lah, ntah apa2 lg. My friend started doing insurance and been up and down to get our friend to sign up with her. In the end, this mutual friend of ours accused my friend not sincere in helping her then, and telling friends that my friend is forcing her!! Use your freakin brain, THINK.
I hate selfish, hypocrite like these two and the following
3. We can find people like this one, EASILY! Shed bitch about someone, then go back to the person, telling YOU bitched about this person! These 2 girl cousins. N is older,, and every younger cousin kind of look up to her. So one day we chatted and she suddenly brought up about Js father using her name to get a loan for Js younger sister. She grumbled that Js dad is so inconsiderate, bla bla bla. Then the next thing I knew, Js giving me attitude!
Hmmph..
4. When another person 'follow' your style, be happy instead! Not complain! Why even waste time complaining. Made you a trendsetter! Unless the followers a psycho!
Still?!!
5. PAY ATTENTION because this is nothing new! Weve heard and read about this, so many times before! When you have nothing nice to say, this is the moment you go with white lies, cuz being around and not saying a word is just as good as - weird??!!
"Why your 1st daughter look different ha? The 2nd one a bit pretty.."
"You still have no kid? Why la?"
"Youre so picky/stingy/fat/rich/clever thats why youre still not married"
6. Anyone, friends or relatives, who like showing off, like posting every darn food they had, and usually expensive joints only. Gosh, am I bitter, or what? ;-)
Ohhhh I dont know. Sometimes I get a little jealous of some people. No matter what their sister or brother do, they always back him/her up. No matter how bad!
But will only see the fault of others, in this instance - moi, sampai mati worr, I once experienced something so revolting and decided to keep it to myself, until something else crept up later in life. My 1st daughter, at around 5months, was sent to a babysitter. My sister in law picked her up and brought her to my moms, daily. Thank you Kakteh..
One day, I get to go home early. So I decided to pick Chah myself. I could hear from where I parked my car, a baby crying. As I got closer, I was certain that its my baby who was crying. The door was opened. I walked in. Its my baby, sobbing, at her feet. She was wearing her house slippers and pushing my babys face with her foot. Chahs face was on one of her foots, tired. When I picked her up, her rompers was so dirty, I thought for crawling around all day!
And...like I said, that was ok..
(That may very well be no. 1)
1. Even if he or she is your closest friend, since birth - when she starts acting weird, bringing you down, you talk about it, still no change after a year, slowly distant yourself would be best - if I wanted to tell K about it, I would have done it myself. YOU dont have to go through all the trouble making lunch!
2. Dont always expect people to buy your stuff, lol, from my own online shopping experience - a relative! Thats real uglyyyy!!! Support others too, its not like youre obligated to buy from everyone, everyday. Esp dgn orang susah cam I kann, belilh satu barang untuk beri sokongan. Asik nak org beli brg kau jerr..
My friend used to help a mutual friend with her biz, helped her promote and buy her hijabs, her ready2cook product, kain, kolagen lah, ntah apa2 lg. My friend started doing insurance and been up and down to get our friend to sign up with her. In the end, this mutual friend of ours accused my friend not sincere in helping her then, and telling friends that my friend is forcing her!! Use your freakin brain, THINK.
I hate selfish, hypocrite like these two and the following
3. We can find people like this one, EASILY! Shed bitch about someone, then go back to the person, telling YOU bitched about this person! These 2 girl cousins. N is older,, and every younger cousin kind of look up to her. So one day we chatted and she suddenly brought up about Js father using her name to get a loan for Js younger sister. She grumbled that Js dad is so inconsiderate, bla bla bla. Then the next thing I knew, Js giving me attitude!
Hmmph..
4. When another person 'follow' your style, be happy instead! Not complain! Why even waste time complaining. Made you a trendsetter! Unless the followers a psycho!
Still?!!
5. PAY ATTENTION because this is nothing new! Weve heard and read about this, so many times before! When you have nothing nice to say, this is the moment you go with white lies, cuz being around and not saying a word is just as good as - weird??!!
"Why your 1st daughter look different ha? The 2nd one a bit pretty.."
"You still have no kid? Why la?"
"Youre so picky/stingy/fat/rich/clever thats why youre still not married"
6. Anyone, friends or relatives, who like showing off, like posting every darn food they had, and usually expensive joints only. Gosh, am I bitter, or what? ;-)
Ohhhh I dont know. Sometimes I get a little jealous of some people. No matter what their sister or brother do, they always back him/her up. No matter how bad!
But will only see the fault of others, in this instance - moi, sampai mati worr, I once experienced something so revolting and decided to keep it to myself, until something else crept up later in life. My 1st daughter, at around 5months, was sent to a babysitter. My sister in law picked her up and brought her to my moms, daily. Thank you Kakteh..
One day, I get to go home early. So I decided to pick Chah myself. I could hear from where I parked my car, a baby crying. As I got closer, I was certain that its my baby who was crying. The door was opened. I walked in. Its my baby, sobbing, at her feet. She was wearing her house slippers and pushing my babys face with her foot. Chahs face was on one of her foots, tired. When I picked her up, her rompers was so dirty, I thought for crawling around all day!
And...like I said, that was ok..
