I'll have to say otherwise, really!
As I grow older (and hopefully a little wiser, everyday) I realized that women can be really weird. Just yesterday, an old friend from my childhood days came for my son's birthday. After the presents were opened and the kids went out to play, all the moms gathered around the table and we started catching up on each other. So inevitably the topic about who's with who now surfaced. So R started. With a certain disagreement in her voice.
"Emhh, he's going out with J. You ingat tak J," describing J to all of us. "Can you believe that?" And she went on and on... It's not about what or how she said or described the whole thing, really. Sometimes we do that too. The thing that I find a little hard to digest is..ok, how about you guys decide...
'HE' used to have a real big time crush on R. But she was at the time going out with this other guy. If I remember correctly, knowing that R is with someone else, 'He' moved on and dated J from years back. And to find out that 'He' is again dating J, some of us thought, may be they are meant for each other. But what bugs me is that R sure is not happy about it! But why? She didn't want him when he wanted her, why is the jealousy lingering in the air?
Then there's this other thing that we girls do, whether intentionally or not, I think this child-like attitude should really be diminished from our characteristic values. Somewhat. LOL, I'm just talking about how us girls fancy doing the "ummm, nothing.." thingy. A girl gets a little upset over something. After a few hours, the guy FINALLY noticed, and asked, "Babyboo, whatsa matter? You're not yourself.......," Instead of being bold and sarcastic (a little, well that's for taking hours to realize!) why couldn't we just respond, "I'm so glad that you finally noticed that I have not been myself. Yes, Papi, I was a wee upset that you didn't say anything about my new hairstyle and the new colour, blah blah blah..." There! You know how boys can suddenly be (and they talk about multitasking!) slow and inattentive? Why do we do that? No, it's not cute anymore. It's suffocating. Forget it, they can be really smart but they are no mind-readers! And when they try to become one, its a disaster! SO why not save your selves all the trouble girls? Are you familiar with this phrase 'My head says no, but my heart says go'? Well, erase that from your vocabulary of phrases! NOW! Speak both your head and heart, then you won't be blaming each other...
OK, this is a little tough to put in writing. But I will try my level best to be subtle. Here you go. Most married men, lie about their wives! And why do girls always fall for these..His wife beat him up. His wife has an affair with another woman. His wife doesn't cook for the family. His wife keeps all his salary.
Girls, be sensible! I mean the higher being is showing you some kind of signs there...
Oh, and I have one more thing to add, if you're involved with a married man, and if he is sincere enough to marry you, tell him one of your (many) conditions is be GOOD to the first wife and the children meaning money is on time, be fair to both wives la di da. It's really HIGH time we be nice to our sisters instead!
In support of 'Better Relationship' (HA!)
http://www.funny.com/cgi-bin/WebObjects/Funny.woa/wa/funny?fn=C4NOQ&Funny_Jokes=Men_are_from_Mars_and_Women_are_from_Venus
"Emhh, he's going out with J. You ingat tak J," describing J to all of us. "Can you believe that?" And she went on and on... It's not about what or how she said or described the whole thing, really. Sometimes we do that too. The thing that I find a little hard to digest is..ok, how about you guys decide...
'HE' used to have a real big time crush on R. But she was at the time going out with this other guy. If I remember correctly, knowing that R is with someone else, 'He' moved on and dated J from years back. And to find out that 'He' is again dating J, some of us thought, may be they are meant for each other. But what bugs me is that R sure is not happy about it! But why? She didn't want him when he wanted her, why is the jealousy lingering in the air?
Then there's this other thing that we girls do, whether intentionally or not, I think this child-like attitude should really be diminished from our characteristic values. Somewhat. LOL, I'm just talking about how us girls fancy doing the "ummm, nothing.." thingy. A girl gets a little upset over something. After a few hours, the guy FINALLY noticed, and asked, "Babyboo, whatsa matter? You're not yourself.......," Instead of being bold and sarcastic (a little, well that's for taking hours to realize!) why couldn't we just respond, "I'm so glad that you finally noticed that I have not been myself. Yes, Papi, I was a wee upset that you didn't say anything about my new hairstyle and the new colour, blah blah blah..." There! You know how boys can suddenly be (and they talk about multitasking!) slow and inattentive? Why do we do that? No, it's not cute anymore. It's suffocating. Forget it, they can be really smart but they are no mind-readers! And when they try to become one, its a disaster! SO why not save your selves all the trouble girls? Are you familiar with this phrase 'My head says no, but my heart says go'? Well, erase that from your vocabulary of phrases! NOW! Speak both your head and heart, then you won't be blaming each other...
OK, this is a little tough to put in writing. But I will try my level best to be subtle. Here you go. Most married men, lie about their wives! And why do girls always fall for these..His wife beat him up. His wife has an affair with another woman. His wife doesn't cook for the family. His wife keeps all his salary.
Girls, be sensible! I mean the higher being is showing you some kind of signs there...
Oh, and I have one more thing to add, if you're involved with a married man, and if he is sincere enough to marry you, tell him one of your (many) conditions is be GOOD to the first wife and the children meaning money is on time, be fair to both wives la di da. It's really HIGH time we be nice to our sisters instead!
In support of 'Better Relationship' (HA!)
http://www.funny.com/cgi-bin/WebObjects/Funny.woa/wa/funny?fn=C4NOQ&Funny_Jokes=Men_are_from_Mars_and_Women_are_from_Venus
