No one likes it when people corrected them. Let alone criticized!
Its nothing weird really.
Well at 46, i chose to swallow and change if its true. That i need to change.
True its not easy. Youd feel a little sad, or worst, bruised after being criticized but if you want a better relationship, or go forward, or be a better person..
Then just change!
Im just tired of hypocrisy. Lies. Double standard. And i dont care about whether id lose friends who arent even friends to begin with, with the changes im making.
I would hate to lose the few true friends i have now, honestly i would be devastated. They are more than friends. They are my real sisters, my real family.
When i was still married, in one of my really really low times, my daughter wanted chocolate drink. At the time, we were staying at my late moms house. Well he owner of the Choco drink instructed me to buy back a whole new tub. Thats not the only sad moment, therere plenty. I dont have to list them all here.
I refuse to take anymore of these unpleasant experience at this stage of my life. Some things, like the "incongruent" existence of my Ex. Even his family......is something that cant be avoided. If hatred isnt so evil, i would hate sooooooo much, theyd just disappear from the earth. But, hatred takes a toll on our souls. I dont need anymore of this...im trying really trying to make good...i dont need bad vibes, bad people to ruin things. Bad people make me hate, i dont want to hate. So the best is, just stay away, meet or talk only when its necessary. Or else...we shall keep our distance..
Dont even dare bring DOSA up!
Absence makes the heart grows fonder, so they say..
Peace.
Its nothing weird really.
Well at 46, i chose to swallow and change if its true. That i need to change.
True its not easy. Youd feel a little sad, or worst, bruised after being criticized but if you want a better relationship, or go forward, or be a better person..
Then just change!
Im just tired of hypocrisy. Lies. Double standard. And i dont care about whether id lose friends who arent even friends to begin with, with the changes im making.
I would hate to lose the few true friends i have now, honestly i would be devastated. They are more than friends. They are my real sisters, my real family.
When i was still married, in one of my really really low times, my daughter wanted chocolate drink. At the time, we were staying at my late moms house. Well he owner of the Choco drink instructed me to buy back a whole new tub. Thats not the only sad moment, therere plenty. I dont have to list them all here.
I refuse to take anymore of these unpleasant experience at this stage of my life. Some things, like the "incongruent" existence of my Ex. Even his family......is something that cant be avoided. If hatred isnt so evil, i would hate sooooooo much, theyd just disappear from the earth. But, hatred takes a toll on our souls. I dont need anymore of this...im trying really trying to make good...i dont need bad vibes, bad people to ruin things. Bad people make me hate, i dont want to hate. So the best is, just stay away, meet or talk only when its necessary. Or else...we shall keep our distance..
Dont even dare bring DOSA up!
Absence makes the heart grows fonder, so they say..
Peace.
