What did you want to be, to wear, to listen to when YOU were 12? I was just talking about it on my last 2 entries. I think.
My girl Aesyah is 12. And she has this idea of what she should be wearing.
Pretty much like most 12 year-old huh?
No?
I thought thats how it is. Given a chance, that is... I somewhat gave her a guideline of what she CAN where at certain places.
I remember a few years ago my niece went to a wedding wearing skinny jeans and showing some of her chest. Her dad was not very happy but her mom okayed it.
Is this a gurrrrrrl thanggg?
Or..., age related factor?
Or a little of both?
Id go with the latter. Just cuz every girl, given a chance to say, wear, et cetera according to her own choice, would pick her own taste. I remember myself,nieces and some of my friends daughters..well sons too... went through this period of time, and wed be telling them (just like our parents did) "hey girl..go easy on the eyeliner, youre beautiful the way you are"
Some of them obliged..while the rest went ahead. Try and learn stuff thats part of growing up. Really..every parent in the right frame of mind would say something if their girl chose to be a mysterious gothic lass in the neighborhood.
Saya doakan anak-anak saya dan anak-anak yang lain menemui destinasi yang diberkati yang maha Esa